Save My Marriage Today Program by Amy Waterman
Save My Marriage Today: Marriage is a social institution and more than that it is a relationship between not only the husband and wife, but also between the families of the two.
Therefore, the preservation of the marital tie is of utmost importance when it comes to the dignity of the families. Both physical and emotional needs are conclusively fulfilled via the medium of marriage.
Hence, in order to know the real essence of marriage, one must learn to love, cooperate, tolerate and intimate as well, when required in urgency. Some of the critical aspects related to marriage are decided to be discussed today.
In today’s talk, we are basically going to focus on the face of disturbances caused in the marriages which lead to the breakdown of marital knot.
There are various common and uncommon causes of the same. Moreover, the solutions to the same are also discussed in light of the guide, which has been framed after a deep research as to find out the existing causes and the respective remedies for the same.
The name of the guide is “The 6 Most Common Reasons for Divorce”. The operative attributes of this guide is to refer it passively for the preservation of marriage and not consider it as a substitute for the saving of marriage.
Moreover, it is also observed that the behavior of the partner does not in itself act as a source of disturbance in relation, but the subsequent and consequent response to that behavior which accounts for the cause of the great inconsistencies in the same.
The change noticed in the attitude of the partner is an indication of bringing in certain ill and disastrous aftermaths in the near future, which may also contribute heavily in breaking down the marriage. Therefore, it must only be learned from here that to save the knot from cracking, the causes should be worked upon sensitively.
Whenever the attention of a partner is observed to be distracted due to certain unknown reasons, it can be simultaneously noticed that division of attention begins to operate in the relationship. The partner does not give attention to the co-partner, but supplies the same to some other person or thing outside the knot.
This is another great cause for the breakdown. Moreover, the sharing habit of daily plans and thoughts that may arise in one’s mind also dilutes in practice and thus, a gap begins to formulate in the relationship.
In the guide, around 25 killers of relationship have been talked about, which are basically the reflections of causes and reasons of divorce.
Some of them are enlisted as follows:
- The habit of looking at things negatively and always responding in a negative manner is the cause of disturbance in marriage. It creates a negative impression in the co-partner’s mind about the other partner and therefore, welcomes unfair deeds between the two;
- The whole lot of criticism of the partner in every aspect of life and at every time he/she tries to do something new or usual is bad enough for loosening of the marital knot;
- The words said once and then denied in a habitual manner account for degradation of marriage. The person should be capable enough to stand on the words said once. This determines his potential to handle the difficult situations and also acts a support for the other partner;
- The loss of respect for the partner also accounts for the most crucial and vital cause of breaking down of marriages. Respect is such a wonderful attribute which tends to unite enemies. It can, thus, be inferred that the role played by respect s of immense nature;
- The deeds of one causing disappointment, whether social or personal are a source and cause of breaking down of marriages. It must be eliminated in order to preserve that marital tie;
- The abuse in either physical or verbal manner is also a great cause of welcoming divorce. The infringement of dignity by abusing the partner verbally or physically is an indication of fading of love and affection of the co-partner and thereby leading the marriage towards an end;
- The maintenance of control over stress is very important if one wishes to preserve the marriage. Otherwise, the only consequence will be the breakdown and destruction, both social and emotional;
- When pride interferes in the relationship, it merely brings in dilution of love between husband and wife. Thus, pride must be kept out of pocket while in touch with the partner;
- Critical analysis of the partner every time and everywhere is another vital cause of divorce. Affectionate dealing with the partner with whole hearted respect is very important to save marriage;
- Disillusionments caused in the relationship and normal course of life is contributing elements in breaking down the marriage. Always being lied to the partner and causing hypothetical images of every talk may not welcome wonders to happen in your marital life, but rather would cause a sudden breakdown due to loss of trust of the other partner.
Hence, it shall be concluded by saying that the guide “The 6 Most Common Reasons for Divorce” may be followed in order to know the actual causes so that one may work for bringing in ameliorations after recognizing the consequences of the same.
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